Posts Tagged ‘sex’

When will YOUR ship come in?

October 18, 2009
Come work for me, have a blast, get great pay, work as little or as much as you want. Most people will pay in cash or checks, so you will actually be paid DAY OF PARTY. You will be paying me my commission, not the other way around. Whats to lose? Items have a 100% markup, you will make 70% of profit, I will make 30%. Example. You sell a vibrator for $70.00, profit is $35.00. Your commission will be $24.50. That is ONE VIBRATOR…..a $500.00 party is very easy, and not unusual. your income from that one party will be $175.00!!! Not bad pay for one party. IF there are credit card payments, then I will pay the fees associated. You will have NO OVERHEAD unless you wish to have stock (which is a good idea, which I will sell to you at COST) otherwise you can do catalog parties.
Of course if you wish to become a rep on your own, that is a very feasible with the kits being slashed in price right now.
So many options….we can build a team coast to coast and take this to a whole new level.
contact me direct @ or phone me at 914-799-1969
Lets get your future and finances moving FORWARD!!!!
Bringing Joy back into your bedroom and bank account-

P.S if you know someone who would like to get involved in a recession proof FUN business, please forward them my info. For every person who you send me, that either starts to work for me, or becomes a rep under me, you will get a $20.00 gift certificate to



August 9, 2009

A New Job, A New Life, A New Beginning


I have thought about this for a long time, giving it much thought and consideration.  I became a Brown Bag Party rep early this year. I have had much success with the parties, but having a full time job, being a full time single mom and in general just not having enough time in each day, I have not been as successful as I would have liked to be in the recruiting area of new reps. I am well aware of those who recruit like crazy, and have over a hundred reps on their teams.


I have come up with a new idea for taking this business to new heights. I know many people just don’t have the extra money to buy into new businesses at the moment. I understand that there are many who just are not interested in taking any risks or making an investment in a venture that might not be a perfect fit. Maybe you have had a not great experience with past business attempts.


I now have a solution that I think will rock this industry. Instead of you purchasing the kit, and becoming a rep on your own. I am hiring people who would be interested in an adult business, which is social, fun and very profitable with NO or LITTLE INVESTMENT on your behalf. You would do the parties, and I will pay you 70% of your NET. Example: You have a party (or your hostess) has a party. That party grosses $500.00 (which is a very conservative number) the net on that party is $250.00 of which you will KEEP $175.00. Most people pay you the night/day of the party. As the order will go through me, I will be able to see exactly what the party did. If you were paid in checks or cash, you will actually PAY me the 30% (or $75.00). The hostess will get 20% in hostess rewards that will go towards any items she purchases. The party must be at least $250.00 in gross sales for her to get her award. (very easily done!!) There is NO OUT OF POCKET expenses for you for her rewards. You can do a catalog only party, or if you choose to have samples available, I will provide them to you at my cost. That would be your only investment. And, that is not even NECESSARY. It is suggested…. as people do like to see the products. But, many companies sell out of catalogs only. Look at Mary Kaye, or Avon!! If you wish to have samples, I would suggest a couple lubes, one or two vibrators, and some other low end items. At the most you would be investing approx. $100.00. (of course you can sell them right at the party, and then replace with your profits.) I will be paying all the monthly fees, all the credit card processing fees. This is a real job, not internet pipe dreams, or ad sense, word clicks, or any of the other pie in the sky money making scams that are out there. This is the old fashioned way of making a living. A real job. Nuts and bolts. You have a REAL product to sell, and real customers to BUY. If you have any question about how home parties are going, watch the news. They are consistently in the news, both Adult parties, the Lia Sophias of the world, Pampered Chef, etc. Brown Bag Party is without a doubt the “Cadillac” of home sensual parties. The products are very high quality, the pricing is extremely competitive and they have a cutting edge online presence. With text messages for new recruits, party postings, etc. There are always parties being posted all over the USA, as I am in NY there is no way that I can make it to Arizona to get that party. With employees all over the country we could get in on all these parties and profits that are available.


I am really excited about this, and plan on making lilatoy a national presence. So what we would be embarking on is a business inside a business. I hope that you too will be excited by this opportunity and join me in making a huge splash in this market!! If its something that ends up being fun for you, profitable (of which I have no doubt), there is always the option of you becoming your own rep. In the meantime, this is a great income producing opportunity. Call me or email me with any questions, and we can do interview online or on telephone. I will need two references, and age verification. NO ONE UNDER 18 can apply. No experience necessary. We have all gone to parties. That’s all this is. A party where you make money. What can be bad??

Lila Tov with Lila Toy

June 18, 2009

I know, it might be a little corny…but when trying to come up with my business’s name, it had to be hebrew, and it had to be cute. Those were my pre-requisites.  I had a lot of well meaning friends helping me, but the truth is, when you get it, you know it. After three weeks of batting around all kinds of possibly cleverer, more sophisticated, or just more fun names, Lila Toy was the one that stuck in “gut”.  While talking to my partner who lives in Israel, I went to say good night to her, in hebrew it is Lila Tov, and kidding around I said Lila Toy. What do you know, a NAME is born.

While laughing about this, I realized, isn’t that how we basically do everything that is important to us. How many months do we think of babies name, or what car we will buy, the home we will own? When you see it, hear it, taste it…you just KNOW.  It was most important to me to be PRO ZIONIST, pro Israeli, and totally and completely open and honest regarding sexuality amongst Orthodox women.  It has taken some time to build this relationship.  Countless emails to Rabbis, (some answered, most did not….) Sex Therapist that are themselves Orthodox, and honest talks with the women themselves.  The more I spoke to my clients of choice, assuming I would be teaching them more about my products, the safety factor, the pleasure factor…the more I learned.

What started out as a smart business niche, has changed my entire world.  Religion always was important to me. I grew up in a secular home where being Jewish was just what we were. It didn’t have a PLACE of its own…I was the only one who took it to heart. I placed an incredible amount of self in it.  I am fairly convinced that I came into this world as a card carrying zionist waving the Israeli flag.  What ended up happening while building these relationships is I have taken Religion to a whole new level within myself.  The teacher was TAUGHT. Now, not only do I have my client base that is growing daily, new friends who are wonderful, but I now have a deeper level of meaning and peace inside myself. How blessed I have been.

Meanwhile, back to what this short blog was about. A name is a name is a name. But for every soul out there, remember, much time and heart went into that name.  Respect the name, and the person. Within that respect you will have it come back ten fold.

There you have it. Why my business is called Night Toy, just with a hebrew slant.

Enjoy, be happy and Lila TOY to you all.

In a Sea of Get Rich Quick Tweets…

June 11, 2009

Minute after minute there appears another url promising riches, thousands of followers, and yet another way to beat the system  Please don’t misunderstand, I am addicted to twitter just as much as the next tweeter…that being said, even though its 2009, there are still ways of making an honest, fun and profitable living without pushing a million new ways of getting ten thousand followers.  To me the most interesting tweets are those that actually teach me something, invite a discussion or debate. Those who aggitate me with ideals that are so far from my own are my reason for “tweeting”. Debating the cause of what I call “Displaced Jordanians” with those who are ANTI Israel, is what truly makes me keep going back. Who else am I going to debate this with on a minute to minute basis. People who are in what I call my physical reality, are sick to death of hearing about it. These faceless adversaries online give me the perfect platform for discussion. Combine that with the challenge of doing this all in 140 characters or less…well, the dynamics are just to irresistable. Do I advertise my own brick and mortar business on twitter? You bet I do! I have a fantastic business for those who actually want to work, and have control over their lives, their businesses and the growth of said business. Not hoping that a thousand people will click on their link.  At this very moment I am watching Internet Millions infomercial on TV. $20,000.00 a week? Snake Oil anyone??  What I do, what I sell, what I try to teach people is that my business, although you will make a supplement income, and if given the hours, a full time income…$20K a week is not going to happen. $800.00 a week, is more like it, doing it part time. Which, for me…is great. If I want to give more time, I make more.  I am admitting here, you will NOT be living on a 80 foot yacht in the caribbean within 6 months. Although, you will be paying off your credit cards, your mortgage, and finally start that savings account you have been dreaming of. So, whats the business? It is a quality adult based party business. Its a fun, laughter filled and educational business. Being built with a company who is growing daily, upgrading their business model every month. My company is called Lilatoy. and I am a consultant of Brown Bag Party.  In this time of an email a second promising untold riches, tweets on your computer with “make money doing nothing”, texts to your cell phone assuring you financial freedom within 48 hours, to the infomercials I mentioned of tens of thousands a WEEK…..there is no wonder we are living in a society of pipe dreams, and credit card debt that will never see the light of day.  If you prefer to dream away, I wish you happy dreams. If you prefer to work your way to those dreams…then I wish you prosperity and the invitation to come check out a REAL WAY to make a living.  Together we can build a team that will exceed your REALISTIC dreams.  Here are the TRUTHS: You will have to work. The work is parties. You will make 50% profits. You will NOT HAVE any out of pocket expenses to reward your hostess. (an industry FIRST), you will make the profit immediately upon completion of party. Have a $600.00 party, get paid in cash or checks, and you walk out two hours later with $300.00 in your pocket.  Honestly, its up to you. Tweet away, and compete with the million other tweeters out there, or start a business that will start paying you the minute YOU ACTUALLY START to work. Its easy, but it the old fashioned way. Build a business the way your parents, your grandparents and others before you did. By all means, use the social networks to advertise, just don’t believe that the social networks will be your path to the life you dream of. That is something you yourself will have to make happen. When you are ready, I am here to hold your hand, and guide you to making your dreams a reality.  Yes, I know by writing the truth, I am going to lose those who want to bypass the hard work of building a viable profitable business. Thats alright. They are not the ones I want on my team anyway. So, look for me on twitter, I will be the one championing my beliefs, challenging those who are against same sex marriage, fighting tooth and nail for Israel to defend itself and occasionally advertising my business. I won’t be the one promising you pots of gold that are empty when you find them. Trust me, this isn’t your mothers tupperware party!!

If nothing else, go to my website, click on the about me, and lets get to know each other.

Wishing you peace and profits in 2009. Lets grow together.

First Party

May 5, 2009

By now many of you know I have been working hard at getting my “DREAM” off the ground. A combination of a retail online site, with Judaism. What could be more natural than a SEXUAL site. A lovely area to shop for something to enhance your relationship with your partner. In focusing on the orthodox community, I have met some wonderful warm couples, and have been lucky enough to be open and learn. Not only about the sexual parts of their lives, but the absolute commitment that comes with Orthodoxy. The love that emanates from the families. While some see this as cliquish, I see it as tightly knit. The era, of when it took a village to raise a child, still exists in this community.  You can lean on your neighbor. You relate to your neighbor.  I started this to embark on a second income. Not a career, not a way of life. But, as I have continued my education, not only has it become a dream to make this a CAREER, but I realize the depth and energy that really does come from FAITH. I am thrilled to be part of it. Wish it hadn’t taken me so long.

Intimacy in the orthodox community

April 18, 2009

Forget everything you thought you knew. All the folklore, fallacies, and out and out lies. What “kosher sex” is really all about is love, passion and the knowledge that no matter what people think they know, is just that…what they THINK they know. The truth is, the Torah commands that the husband satisfies his wife. It is quite the opposite from the secular world, where men take it for granted that they are satisfied, so the sex must have been good. In the orthodox world, it is the female that is supposed to be guaranteed sexual satisfaction. Yes, there are some truths that we know. There is no sex during the females menses. The attendance of a mikvah at the end of her period. Wouldn’t it be lovely if we all partook in this beautiful ceremony once a month. The complete cleanliness of the mikvah. The pampering one receives from the woman running the bath. Not only is it a ceremonial bath, but it is a monthly manicure (of sorts) and Pedicure (again, of sorts) an exfoliation one could only try to emulate in the privacy of your own shower or bathtub. Also, and most importantly is the desire that two people have for one another after a mandated celibacy. The coming together at the end of this self imposed (yes, it is said, but how many people do you know that always do what is right?) denial of human desires? There is a beauty and the more I research this, the more sense it makes. We have all heard of absence makes the heart grow fonder….this absence occurs every month during child bearing years. I personally think it is a wonderful way to keep the romance alive and well. The excitement month after month of looking forward to making love with your life partner. Perhaps this is something the entire world can learn from. Instead of taking for granted, or having that “occasional” headache, we yearn to be with the one we love. Even after Fifteen years or more with the same partner. I have to admit…I am all for this!! With this, I end this wishing you all a Shabbat Tov and a Shavua Tov.

Orthodox lovin’

April 7, 2009

Its interesting, when I first decided to research the sexuality of Orthodox Jewish couples, my friends, and colleagues rolled their eyes, and asked what was there to learn? The amount of people who told me about the alleged hole in the sheet, sent me from mild amusement to wildly trying to get across that this “hole” is folk lore, and that the sex lives of couples, both secular and religous are ones of joy and intimacy. The Jewish religion is not the only religion who holds their sex life in such high esteem, but it is the one I know most of, and that holds my interest more than others. Perhaps it is because it is my religion, or perhaps it is because it is so misunderstood. This all started from going into business to sell marital aids to the orthodox community. A safe, discreet and “very female” shopping experience. Although, this is still very much what I wish to provide, I have now become so much more interested in the actual ways of Orthodox sexuality and Halacha. Perhaps this really was the way my path was supposed to take me.